About Me

Johnny LaLonde is a coach, counselor, and teacher who draws on his extensive experience and doctoral training to offer insight and to support individuals in their process of personal and professional growth.

As a coach, Johnny draws on his doctoral training, therapy experience, and his work with founders at Builders VC. While coaching conversations may venture deep into the internal world, personal life, or family of origin for the individual, these are explored in the service of vocational and professional development. As a coach, Johnny conducts individual coaching, provides co-founder coaching, and facilitates off-sites, trainings, and challenging conversations.

In addition to his independent coaching practice, Johnny is an available resource for Founders in the Builders VC portfolio. In this role, Johnny brings experience and training in order to help individuals and teams grow. Johnny began working with individuals at early stage companies shortly after moving to San Francisco in 2011. Johnny understands the entrepreneurial journey as an unfolding process of external and internal demands. He believes that founders need personal support in this process. He is most enlivened by the deep questions of personal growth and identity that emerge in the demanding environment of scaling a company. Johnny joined Builders to be a consistent resource for the interpersonal and intrapersonal challenges faced by founders. He hopes that his work will lead founders to describe Builders as the most empathic and supportive venture fund they have worked with.

Johnny is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor in the state of California. He earned his Bachelor of Science in Psychology from the University of Central Florida, a Master of Arts in Counseling from Reformed Theological Seminary and a PhD in Counseling from Oregon State University. After finishing his Masters degree, Johnny’s entrepreneurial side saw him founding a counseling center. In 2011, Johnny was recruited to begin work as a counselor at City Church San Francisco’s counseling center, of which he soon became director. In his years at the City Church Counseling Center, Johnny clinically supervised interns, led trainings and classes for the community, maintained a regular roster of clients, co-facilitated a yearlong course of spiritual formation, and provided clinical direction for the center.

Johnny lives in San Francisco’s Inner Sunset neighborhood with his wife, Christy, and their daughter, Hope. When he isn’t teaching, coaching or in session you can find him roasting his own coffee, playing basketball, cooking, or endlessly tinkering with projects at home. Since moving to SF, he has adopted the Warriors while he waits for the Orlando Magic to “return” to glory. 

Emily Dickenson

Hope is the thing with feathers

that perches in the soul

And sings the song

without the words

and never stops at all

Parker Palmer

“Vocation does not mean a goal that I pursue. It means a calling that I hear. Before I can tell my life what I want to do with it, I must listen to my life telling the who I am. I must listen for the truths and values at the heart of my own identity, not the standards by which I must live-but the standards by which I cannot help but live if I am living my own life.”

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“We are born with a seed of selfhood that contains the spiritual DNA of our uniqueness-an encoded birthright knowledge of who we are, why we are here, and how we are related to others. We may abandon that knowledge as the years go by, but it never abandons us.”

David Whyte

“Despite everything you have achieved, life refuses to grant you, and always will refuse to grant you, immunity from its difficulties.”

Robert Bly

There’s a boy in you about three

Years old who hasn’t learned a thing for thirty

Thousand years. Sometimes it’s a girl.

This child has to make up its mind

How to save you from death.

He says things like: “Stay home. Avoid elevators. Eat only elk.”

You live with this child but you don’t know it.

You are in the office, yes, but live with this boy

At night. He’s uninformed, but he does want

To save your life. And he has.

Because of this boy You survived a lot.

He’s got six big ideas.

Five don’t work.

Right now he’s repeating them to you.

Eudora Welty

“It is our inward journey that leads us through time – forward or back, seldom in a straight line, most often spiraling. Each of us is moving, changing, with respect to others. As we discover, we remember; remembering, we discover; and most intensely do we experience this when our separate journeys converge.”

Ranier Marie Rilke

“Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves, like locked rooms and like books that are now written in a very foreign tongue. Do not now seek the answers, which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live them. And the point is, to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps you will then gradually, without noticing it, live along some distant day into the answer.”